Jolien Nathalie

I talk beauty & mental health


It is only recently that I started being more comfortable with my lifestyle, that I've been accepting of my situation and the fact that everyone has their own story. That I don't owe anyone an explanation. That I don't need to feel ashamed of the fact that I don't work and haven't worked in the past 4 years. That I'm working on myself and that's okay. Being a stay at home girlfriend is nothing to be ashamed of. I've written an article like this before - only that it wasn't really a day in the life of a SAHG, it was a pep talk and one that was very much necessary, as most articles about this topic have quite a negative vibe about them. So here we are, a day in my life as a SAHG, for real this time.
Revolution Conceal & Define Concealer

Have you heard? There's a new drugstore concealer taking over everyone's beauty routine! The Revolution Conceal & Define Concealer: a cruelty free, vegan and full coverage formula that not only keeps it easy on your wallet, retailing for just 5 bucks, but also has been crowned as the ultimate high end makeup dupe. I needed to know, is this truly a must have? Will it reach cult beauty status or is it just a makeup trend? Let's have a look!
Topshop Bella Straw Tote Bag

I've only just come back from a city trip to London and my brain is already on to the next big thing: I'll be turning 28 in about a week and after that my boyfriend and I are going on holiday to Southern Italy, starting with Naples. I'm excited but also very nervous. This holiday was planned long in advance, which is something we usually don't do, because this time around we also had to book a petsitter, who'll be taking care of our bunny Chloé whilst we're gone. The level at which I have been adulting I don't think has ever reached this altitude. I've changed so much in the past months that I can't quite believe it, with loads of ups and downs for sure but I'm growing steady. Among other things, me and my boyfriend just celebrated our 6 year anniversary and I hadn't given it much thought up until now, 6 whole years is just wow! Time goes so fast when you're close to being 30.
Swimwear For Women With Small Breasts

I didn't always love my small breasts like I do now. As a young girl, and a late bloomer, being flat chested was something that I had a hard time dealing with. I was bullied for it, called names. I already wasn't having the best time at school, so the fact that also my body was a reason for others to bother me didn't help. It wasn't until I had boyfriends who never had anything negative to say about my A cup that I was comfortable in my own body. Yes, I owe a lot of my body confidence to boys. I realise that sounds like a weird thing to say but it's the truth. Those boys then left but my body confidence never did, it only improved. Today's post is about embracing your small beautiful boobies in collaboration with Hunkemoller for their Doutzen Stories Collection. The best part about this collab? That this post will be a crazy trip down memory lane! Hunkemoller is where I got my first brahs as a young girl. I still have one of them to this day, it's a red sporty kind of bra. Maybe a little TMI but it is still in great condition, I promise! 
When You Have Not Worked In Years Due To Depression And Anxiety

My last 3 therapy sessions have been really hard - productive, but hard. There seems to be a lot more to talk about and to dig into than I initially thought. I recently posted my 2 year therapy update and even though I'm still struggling mental health wise, I've been a lot happier which is why, I think, I've been underestimating my sessions in the past months. Work is something I talk about a lot, with my therapist. The fact that I really want to work and that I haven't worked in nearly 4 years. That I haven't really done anything apart from blogging actually. Not to say blogging is easy but I sometimes wish I would have done more. Taken some classes maybe, short courses, study for a driver's license .. Even a simple hobby or some volunteering would have been fine but I've been too scared to show my face in any of those places. The anxiety that comes with trying new things is enormous. Being afraid of something new runs in my family. We are creatures of habit and even though that is okay - I feel like in our case it is debilitating.
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